Dear Kurt. My wife and I have been struggling for some time now with my lifelong friend, let me call him “Herbie,” to protect his real identity. My wife and I have known him and his wife for almost 30 years and have invited them to our home for dinner on multiple occasions. Recently, because…

Dear Kurt, I have a neighbor who is always in my business with all his “woke” stuff. He looks in my trash cans on garbage night to make sure I don’t have any recyclables “hidden” under my garbage. He puts out lawn signs when I water my lawn with slogans about conserving water for the…

Dear Kurt, My across-the-street neighbor is a jerkwad, always in my business, mowing his lawn and running the leaf blower at 6 a.m. in the summer, and is constantly in screaming matches with his wife during all hours of the day and night. I know my Catholic School upbringing taught me to “turn the other…